Death on the Daily Why we resist change - and how to move through it with grace
Change is inevitable, yet we resist it—even when we know it's for the best. In this solo episode of Death on the Daily, I explore why change triggers fear, loss aversion, and even grief.
Drawing from my own career pivot from Head of Marketing for Formula 1 to small business entrepreneur - and personal experiences with transformation. From the survival instincts hardwired into our brains to the emotional weight of letting go, we unpack the psychology behind resistance to change and how to navigate it with grace, compassion and commitment.
If you're facing a life transition, struggling with change, or simply curious about how to embrace transformation with more ease, this episode is for you.
Key takeaways
- Change is an inevitable part of life.
- Our minds are hard wired to resist change, even when it’s good for us.
- Resistance to change often stems from fear and loss aversion.
- Our identity can be closely tied to our careers.
- Emotional weight can accompany transitions, even positive ones.
- It's essential to normalise fear during change.
- Small steps are more manageable than giant leaps.
- Visualising the future can help ease the transition.
- Support from others is crucial during times of change.
- Mindfulness and self-compassion are key in navigating change.
- Our inner critic can have the volume turned down by connecting with our authentic self.
Disclaimer:
This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and does not constitute professional advice. Nor is it a substitute for professional support.
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Chapters
00:00: Understanding Resistance to Change
03:16: The Psychology of Change: Loss Aversion and Identity
07:27: Navigating Emotional Weight and Comfort Zones
09:23: Strategies for Overcoming Resistance
14:30: The Role of Support in Change
18:45: Final Thoughts: A Note to Self