How to Slide into a Girl's DMs on Social Media ... Instagram ... Facebook ... and the Dating Apps

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Sep 29, 2025

Unlock the secrets to make your DMs stand out! Discover why high-quality photos and a solid follower count are crucial for dating success. Learn the art of 'pre-selection' to show off your desirability with attractive company. Get four proven DM openers that ignite curiosity instead of clichés. Explore how humor and teasing can trump boring compliments. Plus, check out tips on utilizing AI tools to enhance your online presence and increase your chances of getting a reply!

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ANECDOTE

13,267 Messages Tested

Mark Singh tested over 13,000 messages in an Online Dating Masterclass to find winning lines.
He collected and corroborated hundreds of variations and found four consistent openers that get replies.

ADVICE

Make Photos Your #1 Priority

Dial your photos and portray a high-value lifestyle before messaging hot women online.
Invest in professional photos, curated activities, and image edits to compete with women's effort level.

INSIGHT

Match Women's Photo Effort

Online dating success requires matching the level of effort women put into images and presentation.
High-effort profiles convert because women judge messages only after scanning your photos.

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In this unfiltered episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals the secrets to standing out in a girl’s DMs when she’s getting flooded with hundreds—if not thousands—of thirsty messages every day. Drawing from data collected in his Online Dating Masterclass (over 13,000 tested messages), Mark breaks down the psychology of what actually gets a response and why most men fail before they even hit “send.”

From dialing in your profile photos and portraying a high-value lifestyle to crafting witty, curiosity-driven openers that spark replies, Mark gives you proven, field-tested strategies to separate yourself from the herd.

Key Takeaways:

- Why your photos and follower count matter more than you think.

- The importance of “pre-selection” and how to showcase it correctly.

- Four powerful DM openers that consistently get replies.

- Why being funny and teasing beats compliments every time.

- How to avoid looking like every other “thirsty guy” in her inbox.

Key Timestamps:

[00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:21] – Announcement: Mark’s answering questions on Spotify/YouTube! [00:03:38] – Why your online presence matters a LOT in 2025–2026 [00:05:14] – Instagram pictures are your no1 priority [00:06:14] – Pre-selection: why women must see you with other attractive women [00:07:57] – Follower count is important [00:11:59] – Utilize AI tools to maximize your photos [00:13:21] – Four powerful DM openers (tested across 13,000+ messages) [00:18:12] – Student success stories from the coaching program [00:20:08] – Four powerful DM openers continued [00:24:06] – Final thoughts and invitation to apply for coaching

Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/

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Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com

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About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

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