The BarberShop with Shantanu Modern-Day Masculinity: The Dark Truth of Being a Man in a Confusing World
Nov 26, 2025
Men are grappling with silent struggles that often go unnoticed, affecting their health and mental wellness. The conversation reveals alarming statistics about male suicide and delayed doctor visits, linking these to societal expectations and lack of role models. Insights into the importance of friendships, emotional expression, and modern masculinity challenge stereotypes. The hosts discuss balancing ambition with self-care and navigating financial responsibilities in relationships, while encouraging men to seek awareness and redefine strength.
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Male Health Is Systemically Neglected
- Indian men die younger and avoid care, driven by social expectations and male disposability.
- Cardiovascular disease, diabetes and suicide disproportionately affect men and remain under-discussed.
Role Models And Social Bonds Shape Men
- Boys often lack male role models in early schooling which affects development and identity.
- Men also lose social circles after marriage because they bond through activity, not communication.
Name Emotions And Delay Charged Talks
- Build emotional awareness and name specific feelings to manage reactions.
- Delay charged conversations and ask to discuss later when calmer to avoid escalation.
