Matthew Cox | Inside True Crime Podcast James Sexton: The Hard Truth About Love, Sex, & Divorce
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Jun 9, 2025 
James Sexton, a New York City divorce attorney and author, shares his candid insights on love, sex, and divorce. He dissects the emotional complexities couples face, emphasizing growth from separation and the importance of personal authenticity. The conversation touches on the moral dilemmas in relationships, unique divorce experiences, and the significance of small gestures in rekindling connections. He also reflects on stories of resilience, including those affected by incarceration, and illustrates how humor can help navigate life’s unpredictable chaos.
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Gender Differences in Infidelity
- Men and women react differently to infidelity: men ask if sex happened, women ask if love exists.
- This reflects men's focus on physical possession and women's on emotional connection.
From Psychology to Divorce Law
- James Sexton studied psychology and wanted to be a therapist but realized he was better at talking than listening.
- He became a divorce lawyer to combine courtroom work with helping people through transformation.
Clients' Divorce Redemption Arcs
- Many clients in divorce feel devastated but later rebuild their lives and find happiness.
- Sexton connects new clients with former ones to share stories of hope and recovery.
