Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 496 - Trying Monogamy After Non-Monogamy with Rachel Krantz
Sep 10, 2024
Rachel Krantz, a talented journalist and author known for her explorations of love and polyamory, shares her transformative journey from non-monogamy to monogamy. She discusses the complexities of identity shifts in relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and community support. Rachel reflects on integrating non-monogamous values into monogamous partnerships while advocating for authenticity. The conversation also touches on the need for diverse narratives in literature around non-monogamy and the emotional intricacies of open relationships.
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Fluidity of Relationship Identities
- Rachel Krantz sees monogamy and non-monogamy as verbs, not fixed identities.
- She emphasizes holding identities lightly and embracing impermanence in self-definition.
Monogamy with Radical Honesty
- Rachel entered a monogamous relationship after years of non-monogamy, prioritizing emotional openness.
- She and her partner agreed that honesty about fears and feelings is crucial in their monogamous commitment.
Fear vs Public Judgment
- Changing relationship identities can feel internally challenging even if external judgment is minimal.
- Continuing to talk openly about non-monogamy keeps the conversation alive and supports authenticity.