Focusing on what truly matters in parenting

Parents often question whether they're doing a good job raising their kids and worry about the fights and disagreements that occur within the household. The Stoics offer a helpful perspective: a beautiful and good person neither fights nor permits others to fight as much as they are able. It's important for parents to let go of the things that don't matter, such as arguments about taste in music or posture at the dinner table. The focus should be on maintaining a strong relationship with their kids, creating a sense of love, safety, and acceptance. Progress as a parent can be measured by the ability to avoid pointless arguments and be positive instead of a nag, while also teaching children the art of acquiescence and accepting a world that is not within their control.