

Braving the 'quarterlife' crisis
29 snips Mar 13, 2023
Satya Doyle Byock, a psychotherapist and author of "Quarter Life," dives into the nuances of the 'quarterlife crisis.' She shares an insightful tool called "My Two Conflicting Selves" to help navigate internal conflicts. Discussing the tug-of-war between stability and adventure, she stresses the importance of self-discovery in crafting a meaningful life. Satya highlights four pillars—separation, listening, building, and integration—that guide this journey, empowering young adults to embrace their identity and pursue authentic growth.
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Quarterlife Crisis
- The quarterlife crisis (ages 20-40) is a common period of self-discovery and struggle.
- It's characterized by feeling unsettled, stuck, and longing for something more.
Stability vs. Meaning
- Quarterlifers often experience tension between stability and meaning.
- They desire both groundedness and adventure, leading to internal conflict.
Embrace Conflicting Desires
- Acknowledge and listen to your conflicting desires instead of suppressing them.
- Recognize the need for both stability (fireplace) and meaning (fire).