Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2850: [Part 2] Should I Be Worried if He Hasn't Said "I Love You" by Melissa Josue of Melissa the Love Coach on Understanding Relationship Pace
Dec 29, 2025
In this discussion, the challenges of unreciprocated love declarations are explored. Practical communication strategies, like using I-statements, help create a supportive space for honest talks. There’s a focus on recognizing actions over words in relationships and understanding long dating periods as potential red flags. The podcast also addresses how to handle an ex's feelings while managing new relationships, emphasizing the importance of closure before moving on. Insightful, relatable advice for navigating emotional complexities!
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Prioritize Actions And Use I-Statements
- Observe actions more than words to assess his love and commitment.
- Create a safe, nonjudgmental space and use I-statements to invite him to share his feelings.
Ask With Curiosity, Not Accusation
- Ask about your needs with curiosity and without judgment to encourage honesty.
- Frame your feelings using I-statements and ask, "What do you think about this?" to keep connection open.
Say I Love You From A Place Of No Expectation
- Consider saying "I love you" first when it feels genuine and untimed by expectation.
- Speak from love, without expecting reciprocity, so you gain clarity and confidence either way.