The Boyscast with Ryan Long

P Diddy's Male Escort Tells Us How to Stay Hard While Diddy is Yelling at You

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Jul 9, 2025
Sharay Hayes, a.k.a. The Punisher, is a male stripper and escort who sheds light on his wild experiences, including the Diddy Trial. He discusses the complexities of masculinity and performance anxiety while sharing hilarious anecdotes about intimacy. Hayes also dives into the challenges of sex work, the societal implications of bionic enhancements, and the evolving perceptions of male confidence. The conversation tackles misconceptions about women's conversations and the often-awkward dynamics of modern relationships, combining humor with insightful commentary.
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INSIGHT

Inside the Diddy Trial: Male Escort Reveals Surreal Experience and Masculinity Insights

Sharay Hayes, aka The Punisher, offers a candid inside look into the Diddy trial where he was a key witness. He reveals the bizarre atmosphere of performing intimate acts while Diddy watched, pacing and giving subtle directions like a director, often hidden behind a chair and wearing a hijab to conceal his identity.

Hayes discusses the psychological dynamics behind such scenarios, suggesting Diddy's involvement was about control and insecurity rather than pleasure. He also reflects on the epidemic of erectile dysfunction among men, highlighting the pressures men face and the extreme measures some take, from pills to penile implants.

He shares his own journey with erectile dysfunction, including getting a bionic implant, and discusses broader societal shifts affecting masculinity, control, and relationships in today's world. The segment blends the shocking trial revelations with deep insights on male sexuality and identity.

ANECDOTE

The Punisher's Diddy Experience

  • Sharay Hayes, aka The Punisher, shared his experience escorting for P. Diddy while Diddy watched in a hijab.
  • He described the sexual encounters, Diddy's behavior, and the trial testimony in detail.
INSIGHT

Understanding Erectile Dysfunction Anxiety

  • Erectile dysfunction is often linked to psychological factors more than just physical.
  • Men who get stuck in anxiety about performance enter a vicious cycle dubbed "the yips."
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