In this podcast, the hosts discuss the concept of overcorrecting in dating and setting too many boundaries and rules. They talk about their recent product launch and share highlights from their Halloween shows. The hosts also discuss their attraction to Libra men and their appreciation for their Libra friends. They touch on topics such as coordinating Thanksgiving plans, reality shows, and recommended comedy specials. They discuss first date ideas and dating boundaries, and promote their tour and products.
The prevalence of dating rules and lists on social media can lead to an overcorrection in dating behavior, causing individuals to dismiss potential partners for minor reasons.
Dating advice should be filtered and tailored to one's own preferences and experiences, rather than adopting rigid rules created by others.
Nuance is important in dating advice, as overly strict boundaries can hinder the development of genuine connections.
Being authentic to oneself and filtering advice that aligns with personal values and experiences is crucial for navigating the dating world with flexibility and self-awareness.
Deep dives
Summary of Naked Attraction
Naked Attraction is a British dating show where contestants choose their potential match based on their naked bodies. The show features people of various sexual orientations, who stand in pods revealing their bodies to the main contestant. The show's host guides the main contestant through the process, and they have the option to examine each person's body and genitals up close. Despite the explicit nudity, the show is well-produced, classy, and inclusive, providing an unconventional take on dating shows.
Finding Love on Bikes
While biking can be fun and enjoyable, it may not always be the most attractive activity for men. The summary writer reflects on the observation that men on bicycles, especially those in racing positions, may not exude sexiness. Whether it's a beach cruiser or a mountain bike, the writer suggests that there is something inherently unsexy about the riding posture. However, the writer acknowledges that exceptions can be made for men confidently mountain biking as there is an air of adventure and athleticism associated with it.
Navigating Thanksgiving Plans
The summary writer shares a humorous interaction with their mother regarding their Thanksgiving plans. They discuss the confusion and miscommunication surrounding dinner plans with their sister-in-law's family. The writer's mother questions how they found out about the Tuesday dinner, to which the writer points out that the sister-in-law had just informed them. The conversation highlights the different communication styles and assumptions within the family dynamics.
Favorite Show Recommendation: Naked Attraction
The summary writer shares their newfound favorite show, Naked Attraction. They enthusiastically describe the show's premise, where contestants select potential dates based on their naked bodies. The show features various sexual orientations and inclusivity, and contestants are shown revealing their bodies inside pods while the main contestant chooses their match based on physical appearances. The writer expresses their fascination with the show's production quality, host, and how it explores unconventional dating dynamics.
The Overuse of Dating Rules and Lists
The podcast discusses the prevalence and potential negative impact of dating rules and lists that are often found on platforms like TikTok and Instagram. These rules, which can be overly rigid and all-encompassing, can lead to an overcorrection in dating behavior, causing individuals to write off potential partners for minor reasons. The hosts stress the importance of filtering advice that resonates with one's own preferences and experiences, rather than adopting hard and fast rules created by others. They highlight the need for vulnerability and the ability to let one's guard down in order to foster connections and find love.
The Need for Nuance in Dating Advice
The hosts emphasize the importance of nuance when it comes to dating advice. They discuss how advice that promotes a 'bad bitch' attitude and draws hard boundaries can sometimes overlook the vulnerable nature of love and hinder the development of genuine connections. They encourage listeners to be open to exceptions and unique experiences, recognizing that not all advice applies universally and that the human experience is multifaceted.
The Challenges of Overcorrection in Dating
The hosts explore the challenges of overcorrecting in dating behavior, which can lead to overly strict standards and a tendency to write off potential partners too easily. They highlight the need for a balanced approach, where boundaries are respected and personal preferences are considered, but without making rigid rules that limit the possibility of finding love.
Filtering Information and Being True to Yourself
The hosts encourage listeners to filter the advice and information they consume, ensuring that it aligns with their own values and experiences. They stress the importance of being authentic to oneself, rather than adopting a set of rules imposed by others. By being open to diverse perspectives and considering individual circumstances, individuals can navigate the dating world with more flexibility and self-awareness.
With all the dating advice/rules/list/etc taking over our online landscape, we couldn’t help but wonder…have we gone too far? We’re so excited to cover the concept of overcorrecting when it comes to dating, inspired by the viral list “Places Women Refuse to Go On a First Date” (we have a lot to say!) and from all the content we see and consume every day. We discuss how some of the information out there could actually be harming your dating life and possibility of finding love, but how you can filter it and make it work for you. Before we get into the topic, we talk about guys on bikes (ick or not?), Rayna's comical texting with her mom about Thanksgiving, something that killed the mood for Ashley like never before, the show Naked Attraction, AND our new Vibes Only products (including a vibrator that will give you the best orgasm of your life). Enjoy!
