Ep 453: Throwback To Ep7: How To Overcome The Fear Of Judgement

Dec 18, 2025

Humans are natural judges, constantly critiquing themselves and others. The fear of abandonment and inadequacy is at the root of our judgment anxieties. Acceptance is key to overcoming the fear of judgment; it allows freedom to act despite what others think. Jim stresses that comparison only deepens feelings of inadequacy, while others' judgments reflect their own issues. Instead of seeking approval, focus on what the world needs. Embrace who you are, and remember that practice can diminish the sting of public judgment.

Ask episode

AI Snips

Chapters

Transcript

Episode notes

INSIGHT

Judgment Is Human Nature

Humans constantly judge and assign meaning to everything they experience.
Accepting this fact frees you to create without seeking universal approval.

ANECDOTE

Elvis Video Sparked Split Reactions

Jim posted an Elvis video to his group and received wildly mixed responses.
The split reactions illustrated how people project meanings and judge the same content differently.

ANECDOTE

Whole Foods Noticeboard Moment

Jim judged a new Whole Foods experience and then noticed a board full of glowing notes.
He laughed at his own quick judgments and how unaware people are when judging.

Get the Snipd Podcast app to discover more snips from this episode

Get the app

Start Your Transformation Now

I’m sure you’ve already made dozens of judgments today about yourself and other people and people have already judged you about what you’re wearing or how you’re acting or what music you’re playing. Heck, you’ve probably judged this podcast! That’s because that’s what humans do. We judge. We are meaning-making machines! In this episode, you’ll discover that judging people and being judged is a part of the human experience and the most effective way to eliminate the fear of being judged is to accept it. I provide some key questions to ask yourself surrounding fears of abandonment and rejection that you won’t want to miss if you want to start living a fuller and more freedom-filled life.

In this episode I discuss:
Abandonment and Rejection—the two biggest fears we have
How to get over people judging you for good
Are you judging yourself on externals? If so you’ll never be happy. Do this instead!

Questions to ask yourself to finally eliminate the fear of judgment and rejection

Listen, apply, and enjoy!

Transformational Takeaway

When people are judging you, how do you know to the exact degree that you’re being judged? 10%? 100%? The truth is you don’t know. If you’re not putting yourself out there yet, at what degree of judgment can you take action anyway, despite the judgment? When you’re only in a 100% judgment-free zone? Can you take action when you have 20% judgment? How will you know when to stop being in the fear of judgment? Hint: Now is a good time to let go of that fear. No matter what you do you’ll be judged. What would your life look like 3 months from now if you took action even if you knew you would be judged?

Let’s Connect:
Instagram | Facebook | YouTube | LinkedIn

LIKED THE EPISODE?
If you're the kind of person who likes to help others, then share this with your friends and family. If you have found value, they will too. Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts so we can reach more people.

Listening on Spotify? Please leave a comment below. We would love to hear from you!

With gratitude,
Jim