Almost 30 819. Why Looking “Perfect” Still Doesn’t Feel Safe
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Nov 25, 2025 Join clinical psychologist Dr. Molly Burrits, an expert in women's mental health and couples therapy, as she shares insightful truths about beauty, attachment, and aging. They discuss the emotional toll of social media on self-image and the struggle between wanting male attention and fearing its impact. Dr. Molly highlights how our childhood experiences shape adult relationships, the importance of balancing self-care with self-soothing, and how to reclaim personal worth beyond societal beauty standards. This conversation is both enlightening and empowering!
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Shame From Physical Imperfections
- Cellulite and acne create a hidden-shame effect that makes people feel repulsive when 'revealed.'
- Early shaming moments can permanently alter self-image and social avoidance.
How Cellulite Shaped A Teen Identity
- Dr. Molly first discovered cellulite in adolescence and avoided pool parties and intimacy because she felt ashamed.
- That early humiliation shaped long-term beliefs about being unacceptable and unlovable.
Beauty Is A Feeble, Ephemeral Power
- Attractiveness grants social power but that power is unstable and externally controlled.
- Relying on looks forces constant maintenance and fear of inevitable loss.
