232. Dirty Talk 101: Finding Your Voice In The Bedroom

Dirty talk can feel intimidating, but it doesn’t have to. This episode gives you a step-by-step guide to finding your voice, building confidence, and learning exactly what to say. Whether you want to explore a dominant, bratty, or praise-filled style, you’ll leave with practical tools, scripts, and a game plan to make dirty talk feel fun, natural, and hot.

We cover:

• Why dirty talk feels hard at first. Understand the mental blocks that arise, from not knowing what to say to worrying about your partner’s reaction.
• How to figure out what turns you on. Use self-exploration, journaling prompts, and your masturbation practice to get clear on your turn-ons and desires.How to practice without pressure
• Practicing outside the bedroom. Start outside the bedroom with sexting or casual conversations so dirty talk feels easier when things heat up.
• Finding your dirty talk persona. Learn how to embody confidence and play with different tones like dominant, bratty, simpy, or simply yourself.
• Dirty talk examples you can steal. Get real phrases and scripts you can try right away, no overthinking required.
• What to say when your mind goes blank. Discover how to keep things flowing by describing the moment, giving direction, or using playful vocab.
• Dirty Mad Libs for beginners. Fill-in-the-blank prompts that make practicing fun and help you find your voice.
• How to handle when you say something weird. Why awkward moments are normal and how laughing it off can make intimacy even hotter.
• Your foolproof dirty talk game plan. Step into the bedroom with a simple path to more confidence, better communication, and hotter sex.

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