Calm Parenting Podcast

The Root of Anger & Frustration: 8 Questions to Ask #504

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Jul 30, 2025
Discover the underlying causes of children's anger and frustration, from trauma to dietary issues. Learn how to communicate openly with your child to uncover these roots effectively. Explore the impact of family dynamics on their emotions and the importance of validating their feelings. Redefine success by nurturing confidence in children, celebrating their unique strengths instead of focusing solely on academic performance. Get practical insights to foster resilience and emotional well-being in your parenting journey.
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INSIGHT

Consequences Don't Solve Anger

  • Consequences alone can’t eliminate a child’s anger or frustration and can deepen their feelings of helplessness.
  • Children lash out as a signal that their underlying pain and emotions need attention, not punishment.
ADVICE

Address Parental Influence on Anger

  • Investigate if a child's anger stems from witnessing uncontrolled anger or criticism from a parent, especially a father.
  • Validate your child’s feelings about parental anger and don’t fear addressing these harmful dynamics openly.
ADVICE

Check Physical Health Causes

  • Examine physical health issues like food allergies, gut problems, eczema, or PANS/PANDAS as sources of children's anger.
  • Consult specialists in gut health or functional medicine to address underlying physical causes.
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