anything goes with emma chamberlain

haunted by your ex, advice session

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Sep 14, 2025
This session tackles the emotional rollercoaster of moving on from exes. It provides tips on navigating post-breakup boundaries and communication. Listeners learn about the intricacies of possibly rekindling old flames while focusing on self-growth. The importance of maintaining friendships with exes, especially in shared circles, is also discussed. Plus, expect some light-hearted stories about outdoor adventures and hydration tips!
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INSIGHT

Preferences Aren't Personal Failings

  • Emma explains attraction is subjective and choosing someone else doesn't reflect your worth.
  • She compares preferences to music to show mismatch doesn't equal inferiority.
ADVICE

Accept Pain And Use It To Grow

  • Accept that feeling awful is normal and avoid self-blame.
  • Use the pain to intentionally grow self-esteem and learn to self-soothe over time.
ADVICE

Track Feelings And Set Boundaries

  • Monitor your feelings after hooking up with an ex and communicate honestly.
  • Stop the arrangement if you feel used, jealous, or that boundaries are missing.
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