The Covert Narcissism Podcast Covert Narcissistic Parents are Bullies
Apr 4, 2024
Discover the haunting effects of covert narcissistic parenting, where children face the trauma of bullying at home. They strive for perfection yet struggle with self-worth and criticism. Learn how to build a genuine, supportive relationship that can help them heal from confusion and pain. This discussion offers valuable insights on nurturing healthier emotional environments and coping strategies to navigate through the challenges of living with a covert narcissistic parent.
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Children Strive for Impossible Perfection
- Children with covert narcissistic parents are parented by bullies they cannot escape or understand.
- These children strive for unrealistic perfection to please their parents, damaging their self-worth.
Perfectionism Extends to Others
- Children model the perfectionism demanded by covert narcissistic parents onto others.
- This can lead to harsh reactions and future narcissistic behaviors in these children.
Criticism Triggers Strong Reactions
- Children criticize themselves internally but can't handle external criticism.
- They respond with defensiveness or internalize failure, fueling narcissistic or codependent tendencies.