Episode 228: The Rise of Pegging

In both porn and pop culture, we’re increasingly seeing women strapping on dildos and anally penetrating men, a sex act known as pegging. So what’s behind this growing trend? Let’s talk about it. In the last episode, we discussed the ins and outs of anal sex generally. Today, we’re going to dive further into the subject by exploring the popularity of pegging, the role of the prostate in sexual pleasure, tips for using sex toys during anal play, as well as what you need to know when it comes to douching and finding the right lube.

I am joined once again by Dr. Thomas Gaither, a physician who is currently finishing up his urology residency at UCLA. In addition to conducting research on LGBT health and sexual medicine, he is an active TikTok creator teaching the masses about sexual health. You can find him on TikTok at that_prostate_doc.

Some of the topics we explore include:

• Why is prostate stimulation such a big part of anal pleasure for men?
• What are some of the reasons why women might enjoy anal sex?
• What is the appeal of pegging to heterosexual men?
• How might someone introduce the idea of anal play to a relationship partner?
• If you’re worried about anal sex potentially being messy, what can you do about that?

To learn more, you can check out Tom’s linktree and follow him on TikTok.

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