Coming Out Late Ep. #110: Sexual Attraction, Sexual Energy & Sexual Desire, Part 1, (Replay)
In this episode, Robin invites Samantha Fox back to her Show. Samantha is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist AND Lesbian Curiosity Coach. Today, they talk about the dynamic flow of our sexual attraction and desires…and SO much more!
In this episode, you will learn…
- What IS “dynamic flow”?
- How does dynamic flow affect my sexual attraction and desires?
- What is YOUR sexual energy? And why is sexual energy important?
- What is a stone-top? A stone-bottom? A switchy? And why is it important to know what YOU are?
- What it means to pick the best ‘external partner’ versus the best ‘internal partner’.
- How does ‘compulsory heterosexuality’ affect how we feel about our own sexual energy? What does society teach us to think and feel?
- That there really are lots of ways to be a sexual human.
- To think about, “...What am I attracted to? Androgynous women? Women with masc-energy? Women with fem-energy? Something in between?”
- Why “vulnerability” is vital to great a great flow of sexual energy between you and your partner.
- Why communicating about your sexual desires with your partner is critical to a healthy sex life.
- That sexual energy and sexual desire shouldn’t be “heavy” topics; have fun, play, experiment and explore these sides of you.
- The importance of doing the work on ourselves regarding “internalized homophobia”!
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Links to resources:
SAMANTHA FOX:
Website: https://www.curiousquestioningandcomingout.com
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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCugZWOUuPKEtdXQndioSbYQ
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