Sex With Emily

Why I Can Only Orgasm Alone (But Not With Partners)

Oct 21, 2025
Ever wondered why some people can only orgasm alone? A deep dive into how neural pathways can affect solo pleasure versus partner intimacy reveals surprising truths. The discussion shifts to kinks, like humiliation, uncovering hidden desires and the importance of communication. Questions about online interactions bring up issues of trust and boundaries in relationships, while the value of masturbation for self-discovery and care is reaffirmed. Tune in for insights on navigating the complexities of pleasure and connection!
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INSIGHT

Orgasm Pathways Are Learned

  • Bodies can be trained to orgasm one way because neural pathways get wired to expect specific stimulation.
  • Emily Morse explains teaching partners those patterns helps create new pathways for partnered orgasms.
ADVICE

Teach Partners Your Technique

  • Show your partner exactly how you use a toy and then let them take the lead in small steps.
  • Try mutual masturbation or having them place their hand over yours to learn together.
ADVICE

Try Mutual Masturbation

  • Use mutual masturbation to learn how each partner touches themselves and to reduce performance pressure.
  • Watch one another and incorporate observed techniques into partnered play.
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