

You Owe Them This
Jul 2, 2025
Discover how resilience in children isn’t just inherited but cultivated through intentional parenting. The discussion emphasizes the importance of communicating major life changes to kids, inspired by Rudyard Kipling’s experiences. Learn how providing clear explanations helps children adapt and thrive amidst adversity. Equip yourself with valuable parenting tools and connect with a supportive community to enhance your family's journey.
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Kipling Childhood Abandonment
- Rudyard Kipling was abruptly sent away from parents without explanation at age five during financial hardship.
- His sister said it felt like abandonment and a devastating double loss of family security.
Parent Decisions Need Explanation
- Parents often make big decisions without explaining or reassuring their children.
- This neglects kids' need to understand and cope with changes, expecting them to just endure.
Explain Changes to Build Resilience
- Provide children with explanations about changes affecting them to build resilience.
- Respect their need for understanding to absorb shocks and recover effectively.