

Re-Air: Dr. Becky Kennedy: Wire Your Children for Resilience
5 snips Aug 22, 2025
Dr. Becky Kennedy, a clinical psychologist and founder of Good Inside parenting workshops, shares her insights on building resilience in children. She discusses the balance between attachment and helicopter parenting, offering practical strategies for emotional regulation and self-soothing. Learn how family dynamics influence personal identity and the importance of validation and reflective listening in nurturing emotional health. Dr. Becky emphasizes empathetic communication and setting boundaries, empowering parents to foster deeper connections with their children.
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Rewiring Kids For Emotion Regulation
- Becky Kennedy realized traditional behavioral strategies felt wrong and shifted to focus on wiring emotion regulation into children.
- She proposes reverse-engineering adult therapy techniques to build kids' long-term regulation skills.
Recorded Voice For Nighttime Soothing
- Becky used a recordable button to soothe her daughter's separation anxiety and teach self-soothing language.
- Each press repeatedly internalized calming phrases so the child learned independent regulation skills.
Validate Before You Fix
- Validate children’s feelings instead of telling them they’re fine to help them learn to manage emotions.
- Use reflective listening like “You didn't want that to happen” to build their internal self-soothing language.