Hidden Brain How Others See You
Jul 3, 2023
Erica Boothby, a psychologist at the Wharton School, studies social illusions and their effects on relationships. She reveals the 'liking gap,' where people underestimate how much others enjoy their company. Boothby discusses the 'illusion of transparency,' highlighting that we often overthink how our flaws are perceived. The impact of social anxiety and the importance of open communication in friendships are also key themes. Listeners are encouraged to reassess their views on self-perception for more fulfilling social interactions.
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Intro
00:00 • 3min
Understanding the Liking Gap
03:26 • 13min
Understanding Social Perception and Loneliness
16:51 • 4min
The Illusion of Transparency in Social Interactions
20:45 • 8min
Perception vs. Reality in Social Interaction
28:24 • 12min
Understanding Social Illusions and the Liking Gap
40:09 • 4min
Navigating Social Anxiety and Connection
44:28 • 9min
The Power of Compliments and Social Perception
53:03 • 4min