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Hidden Brain

How Others See You

Jul 3, 2023
50:57
Snipd AI
Erica Boothby, a psychologist at the Wharton School, studies social illusions and their effects on relationships. She reveals the 'liking gap,' where people underestimate how much others enjoy their company. Boothby discusses the 'illusion of transparency,' highlighting that we often overthink how our flaws are perceived. The impact of social anxiety and the importance of open communication in friendships are also key themes. Listeners are encouraged to reassess their views on self-perception for more fulfilling social interactions.
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Quick takeaways

  • Many people underestimate how liked they are by others due to the 'liking gap', affecting their social confidence.
  • Social illusions often lead individuals to misinterpret social cues, increasing anxiety and hindering authentic connections with others.

Deep dives

Understanding Social Anxiety

Many individuals spend a significant amount of time worrying about how others perceive them, often leading to anxiety and misconceptions about their social interactions. This tendency to ruminate can cause people to underestimate the positive impressions they actually make on others. Research suggests that individuals often fear being judged harshly by their peers, leading them to misinterpret social cues and interactions. Overcoming these distorted perceptions can help individuals navigate their social environments with more confidence and assurance.

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