EP 181: What's the "Connected Response" to {Insert Specific Difficult Behavior Here}?
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Jun 4, 2024
Discover the concept of 'connected responses' to challenging child behaviors and how to support emotional needs effectively. Learn the importance of co-regulation over punishment, along with strategies that honor both boundaries and emotional experiences. The discussion emphasizes understanding the root causes of behaviors, making for a thought-provoking exploration of parenting dynamics after trauma. Plus, get details on a free webinar that connects these ideas to real-life parenting challenges!
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The Hidden Desire Behind "Connected Responses"
Many parents seek a "connected response" to eliminate a child's distress.
This often reflects a desire to avoid discomfort rather than address the child's needs.
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Defining a Connected Response
A "connected response" recognizes the child's inherent worth, separate from their behavior.
It aims to meet the underlying need driving the behavior, not just stop the behavior itself.
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Accepting Discomfort
Don't aim for a response that prevents your child's upset.
Focus on honoring their humanity and addressing their needs, even if it leads to discomfort.
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