#050—CHOKING IS INEVITABLE, COLLAPSE IS OPTIONAL - THE POWER OF RELATIONAL RESILIENCE - S5 E2

In this revealing episode of Conscious Dominance, Eric explores the nuanced difference between momentary "choking" and complete "collapse" in relationships, particularly within DS dynamics. Eric draws a powerful distinction between the inevitable moments when we energetically "choke" and the deeper pattern of full emotional collapse that can follow. Through vulnerable personal examples and client stories, Eric demonstrates how these momentary interruptions of presence become the foundation for growth when handled with consciousness. The most profound trust and erotic connection often emerge not from perfect performance, but from our ability to return to presence after briefly losing it.

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.