Lessons from the Special Forces and Mossad's Top Psychologist | Elite Performance Podcast #1
May 25, 2022
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Itamar, a former special forces operative, shares gripping tales from the battlefield and his collaboration with a top Mossad psychologist. He opens up about his biggest failure in the special forces and how it shaped his approach to resilience and emotional fortitude. The discussion dives into the core fears that can hold us back, particularly for entrepreneurs. Itamar also reveals the 'action equation' that explains why motivation alone isn’t enough for success, urging listeners to confront internal resistance for sustainable performance.
Emotional fortitude is crucial for overcoming core fears like uncertainty, worthlessness, and abandonment to achieve sustainable success.
The action equation emphasizes that reducing internal resistance is more impactful than solely increasing motivation for consistent performance.
Deep dives
Building Emotional Fortitude Through Adversity
Emotional fortitude is essential for overcoming challenges and achieving success in both life and business. The speaker shares personal experiences from their time in the Israeli Special Forces, highlighting a critical moment during advanced boot camp when they fell behind during a grueling run. An officer offered a temporary reprieve, but taking that break led to their dismissal from the unit, which instilled in them a sense of failure and inadequacy. This experience shaped their belief system, driving a desire to develop extreme discipline and mental toughness as a means to conquer their fears and insecurities.
Identifying Core Fears That Limit Success
The podcast identifies three core fears that often hinder personal and professional growth: the fear of uncertainty, the fear of worthlessness, and the fear of abandonment. The fear of uncertainty leads to anxiety and overthinking, often resulting in a lack of progress in business endeavors. The fear of worthlessness can create pressure to achieve external validation, causing individuals to struggle with perfectionism and underperformance when it matters most. Lastly, the fear of abandonment can prevent people from taking risks or pursuing their dreams, leaving them paralyzed by the opinions of others.
The Action Equation for Sustainable Success
Taking action is fundamental to achieving objectives, and the podcast introduces the 'action equation' as a model for understanding motivation and resistance. Rather than solely trying to boost motivation, it advocates for reducing internal resistance, allowing individuals with moderate motivation to still take actionable steps. This shift in focus is critical for fostering sustainable performance over time, avoiding the burnout associated with constantly seeking new sources of external motivation. Ultimately, consistent action leads to compounding success, creating not only business growth but also a more fulfilling life.
In this first episode Itamar takes us back to where it all started. He talks about his biggest failure in the special forces, the run in with Al Qaeda and his work with the Mossad’s top psychologist.
We dive into the three core fears, the motivation fallacy and why most entrepreneurs are unknowingly chasing fool's gold when it comes to elite sustainable performance.
(09:35) The most impactful thing I learned from working with the Head Psychologist of the Mossad
(18:31) The Action Equation. Why most people can't take the necessary actions to get to their desired outcome and why motivation alone won't get you there
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