Ep 11: Kyle Cease: Healing The Wound of Conditional Love
Aug 10, 2022
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Comedy Central comedian turned personal transformation guru, Kyle Cease, joins the podcast to discuss topics such as feeling emotions without judgment, following desires without attachment, addiction to constant doing, unlearning conditional love, and repairing our inner selves.
Release attachment to outcomes and focus on internal acceptance and love.
Allow and embrace all emotions, being present with them instead of suppressing or fixing them.
Unravel childhood conditioning patterns to cultivate self-love and acceptance.
Deep dives
The importance of releasing attachment to outcomes
The podcast discusses the idea of releasing attachment to outcomes and shifting the focus from external validation to internal acceptance and love.
Allowing and embracing all emotions
The podcast emphasizes the importance of allowing and embracing all emotions, including fear and sadness, and offers the practice of being present with these emotions rather than trying to suppress or fix them.
Recognizing the impact of childhood conditioning
The podcast explores how childhood conditioning can shape our beliefs and behaviors, and highlights the need to unravel and release these patterns in order to cultivate a deeper sense of self-love and acceptance.
Moving away from external validation
The podcast encourages listeners to shift their focus away from seeking validation from external sources, such as views, followers, or achievements, and instead cultivate self-love and acceptance.
Embracing Uncertainty and Following Your Highest Truth
Embracing uncertainty and following your highest truth are powerful lessons discussed in this podcast episode. The speaker reflects on their own journey of transitioning from a successful career in comedy and acting to a path aligned with their true essence. They emphasize the importance of staying unsure and being open to new possibilities, even if it means letting go of familiar and comfortable paths. By trusting their inner guidance and connecting with their higher selves, they have discovered that the true sense of fulfillment comes from being true to oneself, rather than seeking external validation or societal expectations.
The Connection Between Selfishness and Selflessness
The podcast delves into the notions of selfishness and selflessness. It explores how societal judgments and conditioning often lead us to associate selflessness with putting others first at the expense of our own well-being. However, the speaker challenges this perspective by highlighting the importance of self-care and the significance of raising one's own vibration. They discuss how attaining a higher consciousness and embracing self-love enables us to better serve others and contribute to the collective, emphasizing that true selflessness comes from a place of authentic alignment with one's highest truth.
New York Times Best Selling author KYLE CEASE has a gift of merging comedy with personal transformation. Before following his soul's calling, Kyle had two #1 Comedy Central specials and was voted #1 on Comedy Central's Stand-Up Showdown. But after getting everything he thought he wanted, he realized his then "dream" career was still a mask for the pain of conditional love. He now dedicates his heart and soul to Evolving Out Loud, which is a growing community with over 400 thousand members worldwide, to helping people heal and learn our highest truth: Unconditional love.
In this conversation, Sam and Gina are mindblown that their dream guest is finally on the pod and dive into:
-How to feel our emotions without judging
-How to follow your desires or mission without getting attached
-Why we are so addicted to "doing" rather than "being"
-How to love and listen to our inner children
-Unlearning the pattern of conditional love
And so much more...You're not going to want to miss this one!
