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Man Alive

What Women Want That Men Often Overlook or Don’t Understand

Jul 20, 2023
Tobin Zivon, an expert on understanding what women want, talks about how to please a woman without sacrificing personal boundaries. They discuss the challenges men face in meeting women's expectations, the importance of open communication, and embracing vulnerability. The chapter also explores the paradox of pleasing a woman while taking care of oneself and the benefits of being emotionally responsive in relationships.
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Quick takeaways

  • The importance of being present and embracing vulnerability in relationships to provide deep pleasure and connection.
  • The need for men to navigate the paradox of being both strong and tender, embracing discomfort and allowing vulnerability to create a dynamic and pleasurable experience for both partners.

Deep dives

Being a Better Lover and Leader

The guest, Tobin Zivin, discusses the importance of being fully present and fluid in relationships, embracing discomfort, feeling vulnerability, and expanding responsiveness. He emphasizes the need for men to be willing to feel uncomfortable feelings and be more tender and vulnerable in their hearts. By being present and embracing vulnerability, men can become more attuned to their partners and provide deep pleasure and connection. Tobin highlights the importance of communication and feedback, encouraging open conversations about desires and needs. He views the path to becoming a masterful lover as a spiritual journey, one that requires humility, curiosity, and a willingness to continuously learn and grow.

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