Make a Mistake?: Say: “NOT Me!” (Heroic +1 #1,768)
May 24, 2024
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Wisdom from Alden Mills and Lanny Bassham on self-development. Delve into self-leadership and 'NOT ME' mindset for overcoming mistakes. Learn about building resilience and maintaining a positive self-image in the face of challenges.
Lead yourself with kindness after making a mistake to reduce self-directed negativity.
Adopt the 'Not Me' mindset to view mistakes as temporary and non-representative incidents for growth.
Deep dives
Leading Yourself After Mistakes
One key idea discussed in the podcast is the importance of leading yourself after making a mistake. The speaker emphasizes that the critical leadership role one has is in leading oneself. When facing a mistake, the mindset required involves being kind to oneself and refraining from self-criticism. By asking whether self-directed negativity is helpful or hurtful, individuals can reduce pressure on themselves. Breaking down actions into smaller parts and focusing on finding small wins can help build momentum and confidence.
The 'Not Me' Mindset
Another significant concept presented is the 'Not Me' mindset as a coaching technique. This approach focuses on dissociating oneself from mistakes and viewing them as temporary, non-representative incidents. By utilizing the acronym 'NOT ME' (not, not representative, one-off, temporary), individuals can distance themselves from errors, acknowledging them as deviations rather than defining aspects. This mindset aligns with the principles of learned optimism, emphasizing that mistakes do not reflect one's true capabilities and that they are opportunities for growth and learning.
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Navigating Mistakes with Self-Leadership and NOT ME Mindset
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