Explore the concept of accepting that as a parent, you are no longer in control, and the humility and freedom that comes with surrendering to the reality of parenthood, allowing parents to be present and find joy in everyday moments.
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Becoming a parent teaches you the concept of unavoidable reality - the realization that you are no longer in control.
As a dad, it's important to go with the unavoidable reality of parenting and fully immerse yourself in the joys and challenges of being a father.
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Accepting loss of control
Becoming a parent teaches you the concept of unavoidable reality - the realization that you are no longer in control. This newfound understanding can be both humbling and freeing. You can embrace the fact that your life revolves around your kids and find solace in being present for them, whether it's waiting during dance practice or soothing them when they're sick. This acceptance carries on throughout their lives, from graduation to having families of their own. Your job as a dad is to continually be there for them, making trips, doing chores, and being on call, even if you're no longer in control.
Embracing the unavoidable reality
As a dad, it's important to go with the unavoidable reality of parenting. Embracing the fact that you're not in control allows you to fully immerse yourself in the joys and challenges of being a father. Regardless of the stage of life your children are in, from childhood to adulthood, it remains your responsibility to be there for them, to support them, and to be available whenever they need you. This acceptance of the unavoidable reality can bring fulfillment and a deeper connection with your children.
"The first thing becoming a parent teaches you, as we’ve talked about before, is that idea of “unavoidable reality.” Each new father, David Brooks once explained, suddenly discovers that they’re not in control anymore. The kids are."
Learn how to accept, or even enjoy this feeling on today's Daily Dad Podcast.
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