In this engaging discussion, Luke Burgis, an entrepreneur and author of 'Wanting,' unveils the fascinating concept of mimetic desire—how we often imitate others' wants. He delves into the implications of our desires shaped by external influences, illustrating this through the parable of two wolves. Burgis emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in discerning authentic desires from fleeting ones, especially in personal relationships and caregiving. This enlightening conversation encourages listeners to explore their motivations and align their actions with deeper values.
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Desires as Wolves
The parable of the two wolves represents the internal struggle between desires.
We must choose which desires to feed and which to starve for personal growth.
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Mimetic Desire
Mimetic desire means we imitate others' desires, wanting things because they want them.
This is a core part of human nature, influencing our values and choices.
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NYC Desire
Luke Burgis desired to attend college in New York City because he believed NYC kids had something he lacked.
This demonstrates how a sense of lack can drive mimetic desires.
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In 'Wanting: The Power of Mimetic Desire in Everyday Life,' Luke Burgis delves into the concept of mimetic desire, which is the tendency to imitate the desires of others. Drawing on the work of René Girard, Burgis explains how our desires are mediated by models and how this can lead to rivalry, conflict, and unfulfilling pursuits. The book distinguishes between 'thin' desires, which are superficial and mimetic, and 'thick' desires, which are deeper and more lasting. Burgis provides tactics for identifying and transforming these desires, such as creating a hierarchy of values, finding sources of wisdom that withstand mimesis, and practicing empathy. The book aims to help readers gain control over their desires and find more meaning in their lives by making intentional choices rather than blindly following mimetic forces.
Luke Burgis is an entrepreneur who has founded and led multiple companies. He is currently Director of Programs at The Center for Principled Entrepreneurship at the Catholic University of America. He is also the founder and Director of Fourth Wall Ventures, an incubator that he started to build, train, and invest in people and companies that contribute to a healthy human ecology.
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