016: Guys Gone Deep: Chet on Leaving Mormonism, Navigating ENM, and Approaching Women with Authenticity

This week, Elle and Vee talk with Chet, whose journey into the non-monogamous lifestyle is unique in that he was raised in the Church of Latter Day Saints (aka he was Mormon).  He talks about everything from his upbringing to the challenges of approaching women.

This is part one of two, because their conversation was too juicy to cut off!

From Mormonism to non-monogamy: How Chet and his wife found the lifestyle after being raised in the Mormon church. How he overcame the guilt and shame he was taught around sexuality.  What did his early sexual experiences look like? (1:40)

Transitioning to CNM (consensual non monogamy): mono-normative thinking, and overcoming the traditional thoughts taught in childhood. (9:20)

Your relationship with yourself: what has being the lifestyle taught you about yourself? Learning to be okay being alone, and gaining confidence. (13:32)

Navigating the lifestyle: What were your resources in the beginning of opening up your relationship? (20:20)

How to approach women in the lifestyle: how women in the lifestyle are different, and what makes men hesitant to be too forward when transitioning into the sexual space? (22:39)

Where do you start the conversation when hitting on a woman? What are some good pickup lines to get someone’s attention? (32:34)

Communication: dividing your time between partners, and the importance of communicating clearly to get what you want. (39:28)

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