Dr. Trish Leigh

Episode #167: Why Quitting Porn Isn’t Enough to Save Your Relationship — Dr. Trish Leigh

Apr 13, 2025
Quitting porn isn’t enough to repair a strained relationship; it's crucial to address the underlying issues. Secrets and shame can create a toxic cycle that harms intimacy. Open communication with your partner is key to healing. Learn about the 'toxic triangle' concept and how to avoid harmful dynamics. Rewiring relationships takes effort, but moving from dysfunction to genuine connection is possible. Discover the power of honesty in rebuilding those vital bonds.
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INSIGHT

Porn's Relational Impact

  • Porn consumption is a relational issue, not just a personal one, because it impacts intimacy and trust.
  • This is especially true if one partner feels uncomfortable with it and the other keeps it secret.
ADVICE

Open Communication

  • Be open with your partner about your sexual behaviors, including private ones.
  • Sharing vulnerabilities strengthens relationships and helps identify issues.
INSIGHT

Secrets and Rupture

  • Secret behaviors create a rupture in relationships because partners feel like they don't truly know each other.
  • Sharing vulnerabilities allows for genuine connection and empowers partners to make informed decisions.
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