Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2671: If You Want to Know If Someone Is Worth Your Time, Use the Ted Lasso Curiosity Rule by Charlie Brown
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Jul 26, 2025 Explore how the 'Ted Lasso Curiosity Rule' can transform your relationships. Curiosity is presented as a vital tool for understanding others, contrasting it with judgment. It emphasizes the importance of seeking genuine interest and open-mindedness in our connections. Discover how ego and social media can stifle this curiosity, making it crucial to surround ourselves with those who ask questions and show real engagement. After all, being curious is not just polite—it's fundamentally transformative.
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Ted Lasso's Curiosity Revelation
- Ted Lasso shares how being underestimated felt until he realized it was due to others' lack of curiosity.
- He recounts a darts game where his competence surprised his challenger who never asked about his experience.
Use the Ted Lasso Curiosity Rule
- Use the Ted Lasso Curiosity Rule: decide if someone is worth your time based on their curiosity.
- If they don't ask questions out of genuine interest, they're likely not worth investing time in.
Experiencing Curiosity Deficit
- The speaker shares experiences where people didn’t ask basic questions or only talked about themselves.
- Such encounters led to disinterest, showing curiosity is key to meaningful interaction.