What if the biggest thing keeping you from true love is… you?

In this mind-expanding episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily sits down with the brilliant Annie Lala—love coach, philosopher, and conflict resolution expert—to explore why so many of us struggle to fully believe in, receive, and sustain true love. And spoiler: it’s not just about finding “the one.”

Annie shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming skepticism (even as a love coach!) and the radical shifts that transformed her own marriage. We break down the subconscious blocks, relational patterns, and practical tools you can use to attract, deepen, and keep love—whether you're single or already in a relationship.

💡 In this episode, we cover:

✨ The hidden wounds that shape your romantic choices (and how to heal them)

✨ Why faith—not evidence—is the key to manifesting lasting love

✨ The surprising power of conflict in deepening intimacy

✨ How to stop repeating old patterns and finally attract the love you desire

✨ My own personal coaching session with Annie—raw, real, and eye-opening

This episode is packed with powerful insights and practical tools that will change the way you approach love, relationships, and even yourself.

🔥 Press play and unlock the love you’re meant for.

Love the episode? Be sure to follow and rate the podcast so more people can unlock the keys and codes to free their souls. ✨

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About the guest:

Annie Lalla is a relationship coach dedicated to helping individuals and couples create deep, lasting connections by maximizing freedom and minimizing shame. Her expertise spans evolutionary psychology, integral theory, intergenerational family systems, and therapeutic sexuality. Certified in Coaching, NLP, and Clinical Hypnosis, she uses tools like metaphoric narrative, role-play, and sacred theater to help clients break toxic patterns, resolve conflict, and cultivate resilient, love-filled relationships. Whether guiding singles ready to find their partner or couples seeking deeper intimacy, Annie empowers people to build extraordinary love that lasts a lifetime.

🔗 More from Annie Lalla:

► Website: https://www.annielalla.com/

► Take Annie's Love Test: www.annielalla.com/emilyfletcher

► Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LYrYai0uN1V6oIgqI32UC

► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lallabird/