Start leading from the front. Remember that saying your parents used to say, do as I say not as I do. That s*** is played out and it needs to stop, you need to lead from the front if you want your kids to live a better life oh, just because you had children do not mean you should have given up on your goals and I'm here to tell you you need to get them restarted so you can provide not only inspiration for your children but a better life.
