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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Calling - Four Affairs, Four Divorces. Why Do I Keep Doing This?

Jun 17, 2024
Esther, with four affairs and divorces, seeks to uncover why she struggles in relationships. The podcast delves into trust issues, seeking unconditional love, self-worth struggles, emotional turmoil, and the impact of past experiences on current patterns. It explores themes of escapism, loneliness, communication, and breaking free from harmful cycles in relationships.
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Quick takeaways

  • The speaker uses affairs as escape routes from marriages, seeking empowerment and emotional support.
  • Childhood trauma influences relationship patterns, highlighting struggles with love and lack of role models.

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The Cycle of Failed Relationships

The speaker reflects on her four divorces and recurring relationship patterns. Despite longing for a stable partnership, her marriages ended due to infidelity and abuse. Each marriage involved betrayal, leading to divorce. Even in her current affair, fear of repeating past patterns causes doubts about committing to a serious relationship.

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