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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Rewind): 5 Brutally Honest Reasons Someone Comes Back After A Break Up

Jan 5, 2024
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This podcast explores why people come back after a break up, including motivations like lust and self-interest. It also discusses the honest reasons for returning, such as the desire for freedom and the challenges of loneliness. The podcast addresses whether taking an ex back is a good idea, and emphasizes the importance of maintaining standards and being confident after a breakup.
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Quick takeaways

  • One reason someone may come back after a breakup is because they are motivated by horniness and selfishness, seeking validation and a sexual connection.
  • Another reason someone may come back is because the single life isn't as fulfilling as they had imagined, realizing that pursuing casual encounters or new connections doesn't lead to long-term happiness.

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Reasons They Come Back: Horniness and Selfishness

One reason someone may come back after a breakup is because they are motivated by horniness and selfishness. They seek validation and a sexual connection, often described as 'reclamation sex,' which is a selfish endeavor to relive the heightened experiences they had with you. This can be harmful for you as they prioritize their own gratification without considering the potential emotional consequences for you.

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