
Sex and Psychology Podcast Episode 436: A Definitive Guide To Better Oral Sex
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Sep 30, 2025 Joining the conversation are Chris Maxwell-Rose and Charlotte Mia Rose, co-creators of PleasureMechanics.com, experts in erotic education. They discuss why there's no one-size-fits-all technique for oral sex and the importance of exploration. Listeners learn how to overcome common roadblocks like boredom and discomfort, as well as new positions to enhance pleasure. They also delve into transforming oral sex from a duty into a joyful experience, highlighting enthusiasm as the secret ingredient to great oral encounters.
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Oral Sex Is Deeply Personal
- There is no single perfect technique for oral sex because preferences are highly personal and multisensory.
- Focus on what your mouth enjoys and make oral a personal expression, not a performance.
Do An Oral Preference Inventory
- Inventory your mouth preferences by noticing foods, textures, and sensations you enjoy or dislike.
- Communicate those preferences with your partner to find shared pleasures and explore together.
Add Layers To Beat Boredom
- Combat boredom by changing positions, adding hands, or activating fantasy to layer arousal.
- Open your eyes and attend to sensory details to deepen the experience.


