Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel If I Quit, What Will People Say? | How's Work?
Sep 30, 2021
A physician with 15 years in the field contemplates a career change, struggling with family expectations and personal fulfillment. Meanwhile, a government employee juggles a secret second job while trying to balance work, family, and well-being. As both navigate the fallout from the pandemic, they explore the emotional complexities of job dissatisfaction and the societal pressures to conform. Their candid discussion reveals the importance of open communication and support in maintaining a strong relationship despite the strains of changing careers.
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The Affair
- The wife had an eight-year affair with her career, hidden from her husband.
- The truth emerged during a family crisis involving her dying sister.
Doctor's Dilemma
- The husband, a physician for over 15 years, feels he's at a crossroads in his career.
- He's unsure if he wants to continue in medicine, despite having invested so much time and effort.
Identity Shift
- Esther Perel points out that the husband's dilemma isn't unique; many face similar career crises.
- It represents a potential identity shift, more than just a change in profession.