Truth, Lies and Work

214. The wildest overemployment scam in tech history. PLUS! Fake empathy, nepo hires and salary secrets, with Rameez Kaleem

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Jul 15, 2025
Rameez Kaleem, founder of 3R Strategy, discusses the critical need for pay transparency in today's workplaces, especially for Gen Z. He highlights the outrageous tale of an engineer who earned a million dollars through an elaborate overemployment scheme, raising ethical questions about remote work. The conversation dives into the concept of 'empathsplaining,' where leaders fake empathy without action, and explores how discrepancies between words and actions can erode trust. Kaleem emphasizes that authentic leadership is key to fostering team morale and engagement.
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INSIGHT

The Problem with Performative Empathy

  • Performative empathy damages workplace trust and credibility.
  • Genuine empathy requires action, not just words, especially with Gen Z who see through pretense.
ANECDOTE

Silicon Valley's Overemployment Scam

  • Soham Parekh, a software engineer in India, worked simultaneously at 22 startups earning $1 million annually.
  • He rarely did the work, making up creative excuses, exposing major flaws in hiring and remote work systems.
INSIGHT

Trust Hinges on Honest Explanations

  • Trust in leadership depends more on leaders honestly explaining gaps than on perfect alignment.
  • High-integrity leaders maintain softer trust loss despite inconsistent actions.
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