The Pat Kenny Show Couples tend to argue about a handful of common themes
Aug 19, 2025
Join clinical psychotherapist Stephanie Regan, co-host of the Tough Love podcast, as she dives into common themes that spark arguments in relationships. She discusses financial stress, household duties, intimacy issues, and how transitions like parenthood can challenge couples. Discover the emotional roots of these conflicts and learn effective communication strategies. Stephanie emphasizes the significance of seeking therapy during critical phases, especially in midlife, to foster deeper connections and understanding.
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Arguments Repeat Over Time
- Couples often argue about the same core issues for decades, even if the surface details change.
- Stephanie Regan notes the underlying theme repeats across a 50-year span.
Money And Chores Mask Deeper Wounds
- Money and household responsibilities are top triggers but often mask deeper feelings.
- Regan links money and chores to values, control, and feeling undervalued.
Treat Intimacy Like A Habit
- Make intimacy a habit by scheduling closeness after life changes like babies or bereavement.
- Regan advises couples to prioritise making time together to prevent emotional distancing.