S11 Ep199: RED FLAG: Laziness and Passiveness with Jeanine Amapola and Kaleb Ward
Aug 30, 2023
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Jeanine Amapola and Kaleb Ward discuss laziness and lack of discipline in relationships. They emphasize the importance of proactive behavior, open conversations, and signs of laziness. The speakers also talk about the impact of discipline and laziness in various areas of life and the difference between apathy and laziness. A light-hearted conversation about movies and Disney is also included.
Laziness in a relationship can be seen in the lack of initiative and effort in important conversations and planning dates.
Discipline is crucial in avoiding laziness and positively impacting relationships.
Red flags for laziness may include the lack of initiation in important conversations, a disorganized or unkempt living space, and neglecting spiritual or emotional growth.
Deep dives
Laziness in Relationships
Laziness in a relationship can be seen in the lack of initiative and effort in important conversations and planning dates. It is important for both partners to prioritize connection and actively engage in emotional and relational growth.
The Importance of Discipline
Discipline is crucial in avoiding laziness. Prioritizing personal growth, career development, and maintaining good habits, like starting the day with the word of God or exercising regularly, are signs of discipline and can positively impact relationships.
Spotting Laziness
Red flags for laziness may include the lack of initiation in important conversations, a disorganized or unkempt living space, and neglecting spiritual or emotional growth. These signs can indicate a potential lack of discipline or motivation.
The Difference Between Laziness and Laid-Back Attitude
Being laid-back is different from laziness, as it implies being flexible and adaptable, while laziness suggests a lack of initiative and effort. It is important to find a balance and ensure that relaxed attitudes do not become a hindrance to personal growth and relationship development.
The balance between being laid back and setting goals
The podcast discusses the importance of finding a balance between a laid-back approach and setting goals. The hosts emphasize that while it's important to embrace a laid-back attitude and adapt to life's uncertainties, it is equally important to have a sense of direction and responsibility. They share their own experiences with planning and goal-setting, highlighting the value of both approaches in a relationship.
The potential pitfalls of laziness and apathy
The podcast explores the potential drawbacks of laziness and apathy in various aspects of life. The hosts discuss how laziness can sometimes be seen as a superpower when it leads to finding efficient ways of doing things. However, they caution against laziness becoming an idol that leads to a lack of responsibility and ambition. They also differentiate between laziness and apathy, acknowledging that apathy can be dangerous when it results in a lack of concern or interest in others' emotions or feelings.
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