Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting 222: The Summer of Building Independence
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Jun 3, 2025 Summer is a perfect time for parents to turn their kids into independent superstars! Explore techniques that empower kids with life skills, from laundry to public transport. Discover the game-changing 'doing for, doing with, standing by to admire' method that transforms chores into confidence-boosting opportunities. Learn how to avoid negotiation battles and instill responsibility at home. This insight will help raise self-sufficient and resilient kids who take pride in contributing to family life.
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Summer Is Independence Bootcamp
- Use summer as the optimal time to teach kids life skills since there is more time to do so.
- Hand off responsibilities like laundry and cooking during this period for effective learning.
Walking To Haircuts Independently
- Lisa's younger daughter walks 17 minutes to her haircut alone because it's a safe neighborhood and pleasant weather.
- This autonomy promotes confidence and resilience in kids.
Kids Need To Feel Counted On
- Kids benefit from feeling counted on through meaningful responsibilities.
- This sense of purpose is vital for mental health and emotional wellbeing.