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The Art of Communication: How to Stay Calm, Connected and In Control During Life’s Toughest Moments with Jefferson Fisher #571

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Jul 8, 2025

Jefferson Fisher, a trial lawyer and author of "The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More," delves into the art of communication. He emphasizes that effective dialogue goes beyond words, focusing on tone, timing, and emotional energy. Listeners learn about controlling moments of conflict through mindful breathing and the power of silence. Fisher reveals how ego and unspoken emotions often fuel arguments, advocating for empathy and active listening to foster deeper connections. This conversation is a masterclass in nurturing meaningful interactions.

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Communication Beyond Words

Effective communication is more than words; tone, timing, and energy matter deeply.
What people say is just the tip of the iceberg; unspoken emotions influence understanding.

ANECDOTE

Childhood Storytelling Shaped Passion

At a family retreat, Jefferson, aged eight, witnessed storytelling that shaped his passion.
This weekend revealed that communication and advocacy were the family's true legacy.

INSIGHT

Communication Makes Us Human

Communication creates human connection beyond mere words.
Isolation harms us deeply because humans are social beings craving interaction.

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Most of us spend our lives in conversation - yet very few of us are ever taught how to communicate well. Whether it’s with our partners, colleagues, family or friends, we often assume that being heard is the same as being understood. But true communication isn’t just about the words we use - it’s about the tone, timing and energy behind them.

This week’s guest believes that better communication can transform not only our relationships, but our health and happiness as well.

Jefferson Fisher is a trial lawyer, a sought after public speaker and the author of the brand new book, The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More.

In this conversation, we explore:

Why good communication is about more than just words
The three essential principles to better communication
How to shift from reaction to reflection by making your first word your breath
What it means to “control the moment”
How to use the “I can tell…” framework to defuse tension
Why silence can be a superpower, when used correctly
How ego, fear and unspoken emotion are often the real reason for arguments

This isn’t just an episode about talking. It’s about how to listen better, show up with more intention, and move from conflict to connection – one breath, one moment, one conversation at a time. I hope you enjoy listening.

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