Sex for Saints Episode 214 - What We Chase Will Run
May 27, 2022
Explore the hidden depths of nonverbal communication that often speak louder than words in relationships. Discover how chasing after your partner might actually push them away, especially when it comes to intimacy. The conversation dives into the nuances of desire, affection, and emotional connections, spotlighting the importance of understanding what truly nurtures intimacy. Learn strategies to enhance your communication skills and foster a healthier bond with your spouse.
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Nonverbal Communication Dominates
- Humans read nonverbal signals far more than words when judging others quickly.
- Body language and vocal cues carry most of the meaning in everyday communication.
High-School Boyfriend That Took
- Amanda recounts a high-school boyfriend who made dates all about him and felt like he was taking from her.
- She contrasts that with respectful partners who made her feel given to rather than taken from.
Sensing Extraction Versus Gift
- Women can often sense whether touch and sex feel like taking or giving.
- Feeling extracted from undermines desire and fuels the 'sex is for him' dynamic.
