#1252 - 'Where do Babies Come From?' & Other Tricky Questions Kids Ask

When your 8-year-old asks, “Where do babies come from?” how do you respond—without panicking? In this episode, Justin and Kylie Coulson share a sneak peek from an upcoming full interview with parenting author Michelle Mitchell about how to answer kids’ trickiest questions around procreation, intimacy, and consent. With warmth and practical wisdom, this conversation helps you feel more confident about when to talk, what to say, and how to create safe, shame-free conversations at every age.

KEY POINTS:

• Start early and keep it simple. Naming body parts from a young age normalises these conversations and lays the foundation for later discussions about intimacy and consent.
• It’s never one big talk—it’s lots of little ones. Open, ongoing conversations build trust and make it easier for your child to ask more questions over time.
• You don’t need to get it perfect—just talk. Whether your style is open and casual or more private and reserved, what matters is that you're talking.
• Consent starts with valuing the body. Children need to understand their body is important, personal, and deserves respect—this frames later discussions about consent and intimacy in a meaningful, protective way.
• Humour helps. Be ready for funny, awkward, or unexpected responses. Respond with warmth, and follow your child’s lead on what they’re ready for.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:

“It doesn’t matter how your family talks—at the dinner table or quietly in private. What matters is that you’re talking.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

• Where Do Babies Come From? And Other Questions 8–12 Year Olds Ask – Michelle Mitchell’s newest book for kids and parents
• The Girl’s Guide to Puberty and The Guy’s Guide to Puberty – Also by Michelle Mitchell
• Happy Families School Membership
• Coming Soon: Full interview with Michelle Mitchell (Saturday episode)

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:

1. Start with naming. Use proper terminology for body parts from the toddler years to normalise respectful language.
2. Create a safe atmosphere. Be open to your child’s questions without judgement—even if you feel uncomfortable.
3. Match your message to your child’s age. Answer what they’re asking, and don’t overshare if they’re not ready.
4. Read together. Use age-appropriate books like Michelle’s to guide conversations and give your child permission to explore topics at their pace.
5. Teach consent through value. Help your child understand that their body is special and deserves care and respect—this lays the groundwork for deeper conversations later.

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