Growth Mindset Psychology: The Science of Self-Improvement

Why You’ll Care About Completely Different Things in 5 Years

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Aug 12, 2025
Ever wonder why your priorities may seem silly in hindsight? The conversation dives into how our values shift, comparing past obsessions with childhood joys. Eccentric inventors and playful puppies illustrate the beauty of creative simplicity. Step outside your norms for fresh perspectives, and learn to distinguish fleeting interests from lasting values. Reflecting on past passions can clarify what truly matters, emphasizing the importance of kindness and time as you navigate your future.
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Puppy Metaphor For Attention

  • Sam Webster Harris describes puppies treating cushions and laptops the same, driven by proximity and attention.
  • The example shows value can depend on context and who pays attention, not intrinsic worth.
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Expectations About Shared Values

  • Sam Webster Harris warns we expect others to share and respect our values but they often don't.
  • That mismatch causes frustration when people don't reciprocate our importance levels.
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The City Bubble Illusion

  • Sam Webster Harris observes locals in any city act as if the world revolves around them.
  • He contrasts Western focus on Rome with the overlooked global impact of the Han Empire.
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