

Sunday Pick: How many friends do I need?
Dec 1, 2024
Delve into the intriguing world of friendships and their complexities. A data scientist chats with an evolutionary psychologist about how many connections we really need. Discover how motherhood impacts social ties and the unique challenges of maintaining friendships during life’s transitions. Explore the fascinating concept of Dunbar's number and its effects on social circles. Personal stories highlight the joy of intergenerational friendships and the emotional work involved in mapping one's own social connections.
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Mona's Changing Friendships
- Mona Chalabi discusses her changing friendships after becoming a mother.
- She mentions her mother's analogy of friendships as a fruit basket, where some good apples inevitably go bad.
Dunbar's Number
- Robin Dunbar's research suggests humans maintain around 150 relationships.
- This "Dunbar's number" includes various relationships from family to acquaintances.
Factors Affecting Dunbar's Number
- Dunbar's number, ranging from 100-250, is influenced by personality and age.
- Introverts prefer fewer close friends, while extroverts maintain a wider network.