LOVERS by shan S2 Ep136: Am I Still Who You Want? Are You Becoming Who I Need? A Relationship Check-In + Free Guide ft Jared Brady
Sep 10, 2025
In this conversation, musician Jared Brady, Shan Boodram's husband, candidly explores the intricacies of love and vulnerability. They tackle the tough questions about their relationship, discussing intimacy and the need for regular check-ins to stay aligned. With a focus on balancing work and family life, they emphasize how couples can navigate change together. Additionally, they introduce a free Relationship Check-In Guide, making their insights accessible for all couples looking to enhance their communication and connection.
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Schedule Neutral Relationship Check-Ins
- Schedule neutral, premeditated check-ins to discuss what's working, what to improve, and shared wins.
- Use a clear structure so conversations don't become one-sided unloads or reactive arguments.
Routine Restored Balance And Creative Fulfillment
- Jared says he found better routines balancing work and family that make days feel structured instead of a run-on sentence.
- He also regained creative fulfillment, which increased his confidence and presence in the relationship.
Seasons Affect Desire, Spontaneity Can Return
- Parenting seasons shift sexual dynamics between spontaneous and responsive desire over time.
- Reintroducing spontaneity can rekindle desire even after years of maintenance sex and exhaustion.