Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

2726: How To Use Empathy Even When You Don't Think You Can by Adina Soclof of Parenting Simply

Sep 12, 2025
Explore the transformative power of empathy in parenting. Learn how it strengthens the bond between parents and children and helps kids manage their emotions. Discover strategies to overcome common barriers and integrate empathy with discipline. Adina Soclof highlights that being empathetic doesn’t mean condoning negative behavior but fosters resilience and understanding. Better communication leads to children who can soothe themselves and navigate difficult emotions more effectively.
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INSIGHT

Empathy Boosts Child Development

  • Empathy strengthens parent-child relationships and emotional regulation in children.
  • Empathetic children show better academics, social skills, and fewer behavior problems.
ADVICE

Practice Empathy Regularly

  • Practice empathetic language even if it feels unnatural at first because it becomes easier with repetition.
  • Children may react oddly initially but will come to appreciate empathy more than other tactics.
ADVICE

Empathize, Then Set Expectations

  • Empathize with your child's feeling and then restate your expectation or belief in their ability to act respectfully.
  • This combination signals understanding without condoning poor behavior.
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